You see, my wife is Guatemalan, and when her corporate job moved her to the U.S., she didn't know the first thing about how to meet women. - I must confess that this is probably the ugliest dating site that I have laid eyes on, but it was created as a place for sober people to connect.I checked it out and concluded that it’s at least worth a look.A mean/funny gay male friend lied to her and said, "Oh, honey, Home Depot is the place to meet girls!Just go hang out in the tool section." She didn't know any better, so for many Saturdays in a row she would trek to the home improvement outlet in Chelsea and search for her soul mate.
I met my wife online, and if you want to know more about how to successfully date on the Internet, read my previous column, "Juicy Jincey's Guide to Online Dating: Finding Love or Just a One-Night Stand." Right now I'm talking about how to meet women and in your day-to-day life.
There may be only one gay bar, so everyone goes there, like in . Also, gay men often enjoy flirting with pretty girls just for fun. Make it clear that you are not there "together." Any good wingman will ease the tension and help you go up and talk to women.
If you live in a one-stoplight kind of town, then there may not be a gay bar, but I would lay money down on the fact that there is one somewhere close by in the county. The more people you chat with, the more your confidence will be boosted. If you have chemistry with someone, exchange phone numbers. Don't be a douche and go around getting everyone's digits. When you meet someone at a bar, wait two days to call for a date.
Despite it being tiny, there gay people there who hang out and do gay things. You may feel comfortable hanging out with your buddy, but the problem is that women in the bar will think that you came with your man-friend as a date. Trust me, I made that mistake more times than anything else.
What I have noticed about small towns is that gays and lesbians tend to stick together more. In other words, they will think that the two of you came to the bar to find someone to have a threesome. So, who is the best person to bring with you to a gay bar? Good-looking women will attract the attention of the lesbians in the bar.